The Fleshlight Lady was actually one of my first ever sex toys and was a prize from our friends over at Fleshlight.com. The Fleshlight really opened a whole new world to us about how we can bring what we thought traditionally was a product to be used solely by males but it turned out we could bring it into our couples play and be very erotic.
Design / Shape / Size
There is no mistaking that the Fleshlight Lady means business. The case of the Fleshlight is wonderfully designed to keep the insert safe and hidden from everyday elements. The case is subtly designed but it would be hard to pass it off for anything else other than a sex aid due to the oddness of it’s shape even though it’s tried to look similar to a flashlight. The case is very well sized as the insert fits snugly inside but not too snug as it is still easy to remove and put an insert back in for cleaning purposes.
The base of the case very handily screws off which makes cleaning a lot easier and is very good at collecting ‘fluids’. The Fleshlight Lady insert is one of the more basic Fleshlights in the range but it still looks really good on the outside and we can tell a lot of attention to detail has been done on the look of the vagina. The insert looks very lifelike including a very nice looking clitoris it also feels really soft and tempting thanks to the SuperSkin material of the product.
Many Fleshlights have internal textures to increase sensations but the Lady is actually untextured but this doesn’t mean the toy is actually a worse product compared due to the lack of texture. In fact the toy feels much better than most other textured male masturbators I have tried.
Care and Cleaning
Due to the material of the Fleshlight and what it is used for it does take longer than average to clean compared to other sex toys. To clean we found it is best to completely remove the insert from the case and rinse the insert with warm water and then leave to dry before placing back in the case.
Due to the SuperSkin material of the Fleshlight it is important to sprinkle a liberal amount of corn starch / corn flour on the sleeve and shake off the excess powder now and again. Not doing this can make your Fleshlight end up feeling sticky.
We have found we can never be 100% sure that the Fleshlight Lady is completely clean to due to it’s design but it’s a trade-off for the sensations this product can give.
I have found to get the best sensation from the Fleshlight Lady is to lay it in some warm water before using so it feels more lifelike as it’s closer to body temperature. Even without doing this the Fleshlight Lady still feels really good.
With a little bit of water based lube on my penis and on the entrance of the Lady penetrating is very easy and comfortable. The masturbator feels really good as soon as I penetrate it as it hugs my penis very well. The Lady isn’t particularly a tight masturbator and would class this toy as about average tightness.
Even without an internal texture each and every thrust into the Fleshlight masturbator feels really good and it always seems to get me to orgasm without too much problem. The orgasms are not the strongest I’ve experienced with a masturbator but they are still very good.
We have found a number of methods online for mounting the Fleshlight for a hands free experience which we prefer as she likes to see me thrusting into a masturbator without any intervention of hands. There is a lot of talk online of using a shoe to hold the Fleshlight in place but we have never got along with this, instead we have tended to place the masturbator in-between the base of our bed and our mattress which holds it very well and is the perfect height for us.
The Fleshlight Lady really opened doors for us and we will always remember it for that but for us it’s not the best we have tried due to the good but not mind blowing orgasms and the issues with cleaning. However this is the best male masturbator by far and we continue to use it to this day.