In the past, whenever I would have sex I would almost always end up climaxing way too early. Just when the sex was getting really good I would ruin everything by blowing my load when my partner nowhere near orgasm. To say it ruined the mood would be an understatement. They were left unsatisfied, and I was left completely embarrassed. I started getting anxiety about having sex, worrying that I was going to climax too early and ruin everything.
Thankfully, a friend of mine told me that a male masturbator could help me last longer. So of course I immediately starting looking online for one that had good reviews at a decent price. I chose the Autoblow 2 because of the great things I read about it, and while I can't say I've tried every masturbator on the market, I really don't see how they could get much better than this. And let me tell you, this little gadget has made a world of difference in my sex life!
How a Male Masturbator Can Make You Last Longer
Before buying my male masturbator I had tried other suggestions for lasting longer which included masturbating before sex and doing 'kegel' exercises, but they didn't do any good. My masturbator, however, helped in the following ways:
- It feels like the real thing.
- It gives me full control over my orgasm
- It relieves performance anxiety
To elaborate, the great thing about the Autoblow 2 is that it feels almost exactly like I'm getting a real blowjob, and the material is what makes all the difference! Masturbating the 'regular' way feels exactly like what it is - like I'm using my hand to get myself off. Then when I would have actual sex, the sensations were completely different, and I would climax much faster. (read: way too fast)
Because the masturbator provides a more wet and warm environment, I have been able to get more used to that feeling, which means that I am more prepared and relaxed when I am with my partner.
Although the Autoblow 2 is automatic (how cool is that?) it is super easy to control the speed setting which means I have complete control over my orgams. I can practice getting myself right to the edge and then backing off. The more times I almost reach climax and then stop, the better I get at doing that when the time comes for real sex. I do have to be honest though. This took me awhile to get the hang of. The first few times I tried this I got off just as quickly as I did when I had sex. The good thing was though, that I didn't have to be embarrassed because I was the only person to witness it!
And that brings me to feeling more confident with my sexual partners. Through regular practice I have gotten to the point that my last partner was begging me to cum because she was already having an orgasm! (HIGH FIVE!)
Use the Male Masturbator to Rev Up Your Sex LIfe
If you can relate to my problems that I can thankfully now say are in the past, you need to get yourself a male masturbator. I can't believe how much longer I can now last in bed when I am with a partner. All you need to to do is add a bit of lubricant, and I'm telling you it feels like the real thing! And with a bit of regular practice, you should see some really great results.
But do you want to know the best part about this whole method? It feels absolutely amazing while you're doing it! I was a bit skeptical at first, but when I was told it would help me last longer, I had to try it. And boy, was I surprised! You may just have some of the best orgasms of your life in the process!