This week I am reviewing another Fleshlight Girl, Stoya, and her signature Fleshlight, the Stoya Destroya. I happen to be a big fan of Stoya. I think she is very sexy and I am a sucker for her alabaster skin. I had read many great things about this male masturbator, many people saying it's one of the best Fleshights around. Unfortunately, I was a bit let down by it. I'll get to that in a minute.
If you aren't familiar with the Fleshlight Girls lineup of toys, here is a brief summary. Fleshlight got a bunch of popular adult film stars and brought them into their studio to take molds of their vaginas, mouths and butts, then made a special texture for each girl. These textures are unique to each girl and are only available with their signature toy.
You actually have three different choices with a Fleshlight Girl. You can choose her vagina, her butt or her mouth. Each of these orifices is molded directly off the girl's body so it looks just like her. Only the vagina has the unique texture though. Actually, when you choose the vagina, you have a choice between the girl's signature texture or the Lotus texture. Regardless of the girl, when you choose her butt you get the Forbidden texture, and if you choose her mouth you get the swallow texture.
Upon entering the toy, three small rings of bumps will stimulate you first. From there, you pass into what Fleshlight calls the “ultra piercing pleasure dome”. This dome is a chamber with three rows of pointy nubs that all point to a central location. From there, you pass through a tight ring, into a row of teeth, then into a row of fangs. If you're a large enough man, the Destroya finishes with a super ribbed textured canal that diminishes in size.
There are two parts to the Stoya Destroya. The hard outer plastic case and the soft and squishy insert. I got my Destroya without a case. If you already have a case, there is no real need to have more than one other than for convenience sake, or if you want to use two Fleshlights at the same time. If you buy just the sleeve you save yourself ~$20 too. If you don't have a case though, you definitely want to pick one up. If you choose to buy your Destroya with a case, it will come with a special color case that is pearlescent white, which looks pretty cool.
The case has two screw-on caps, one on each end. On the large end, the cap covers the orifice where you insert your penis. The cap on the bottom is used to regulate the amount of suction that the toy produces while you use it. I will speak more on that later. The soft insert part of the toy is made from a secret material that is exclusive to Fleshlight. They call this material Real Feel Superskin, and I must say, it's pretty impressive. It's quite durable, extremely stretchy, very good at retaining heat, lubes up well, feels very realistic, is easy to clean, and to top it off, it's also phthalate and latex free. One last thing about this material, you should only use water-based lubricants. Oil or silicone-based lubricants can deteriorate the Superskin material.
So, how is the Stoya Destroya in the pleasure department? Honestly, it's kinda meh, at least compared to other Fleshlights. It does feel good, and I can achieve an orgasm without any trouble, but something about it is just lacking. I think if I had tried the Destroya before I tried the STU Fleshlight or the Vortex Fleshlight I would think much more highly of it. However, compared to those two toys, it pales in comparison. In its defense, it does produce very satisfying and powerful orgasms, it's getting to the orgasm that is lacking.
I find that with the Destroya I like a fair amount of suction. I mentioned earlier in my review that the cap at the bottom of the case regulates the amount of suction that you get. This is a very personal thing, but with the Stoya Destroya Fleshlight I like to break the seal and just barely loosen it a bit more. For me, that's the ideal amount of suction. It's definitely something I highly encourage you to play around with. Getting the suction right can make all the difference in the world.
To get the best experience with your Stoya Destroya Fleshllight, I highly recommend that you heat it up first. I do this by filling my sink with some hot water and letting the sleeve soak for ~10 minutes. It's entirely possible to use the Destroya at room temperature and it still feels good. I just think you will have a much more enjoyable experience if you warm it up first. Do not use your microwave or place your Fleshlight in boiling water to heat it up. You could destroy it or hurt yourself.
You will also need to use lube. I found that the Stoya Destroya Fleshlight is kind of a lube hog. During an extended session, i found myself adding additional lube once or twice. The longer the session, the more times I needed to add lube.
Other than the lackluster sensations produced by the Stoya Destroya, I have the same complaint that I have with all Fleshlight toys, cleanup and prep. To get the best experience, you're going to want to heat up your Destroya. This is going to take 10-15 minutes and multiple trips to the bathroom to make sure the water is still hot or that your sink didn't drain. The prep time kind of makes it difficult when you're lying in bed and can't fall asleep and think a quick wank might help.
There is also the clean up. Fleshlights are pretty easy to clean, you just run water through them for ~30 seconds and you're good to go. However, since you have to use lube, you have to clean yourself and the toy. Once again, it just makes spontaneous sessions difficult. That said, when you do take the time, a masturbator for men is going to be much more enjoyable than your hand.
Stoya Destroya Fleshlight
- Realistic feeling material
- When you achieve orgasms, they are very good
- Lackluster texture
- Prep/clean-up time
I was really expecting to love the Stoya Destroya Fleshlight. I am a fan of Stoya as an adult entertainer and I had read and heard so many positive things that I figured it was going to be great. Unfortunately, I was pretty underwhelmed. It's not a bad toy, there are just better Fleshlights out there. I would recommend the STU or the Vortex, personally. If my review has discouraged you from getting the Stoya Destroya Fleshlight, but you're a huge fan of Stoya, you can always get her Vagina with the Lotus texture, her butt with the Forbidden texture, or her mouth with the Swallow Texture.